Trick or treating, turkey trotting, and trimming the tree are all known traditions for many American families. They are fun, ways of breaking the monotony of everyday living and lend joyous, spirit filled, magic and texture to foster eventful gatherings during the holiday season. Traditions can assist in strengthening family bonds, teaching values, connecting family… [Read More]
Marriage, Money & the Holidays
Fall is here, Thanksgiving is just around the corner, and before you know it, Christmas will arrive! I love the holidays! I love to fellowship and the spirit of giving! I do not, however, like to spend too much money. Money mismanagement can make for a burdensome season. Hopefully, you have not waited until now to… [Read More]
My letter to a spouse who’s hanging on while watching a partner pull away.
Dear feeling hopeless, Let me first begin by telling you I’m so sorry you’re hurting. A troubled marriage is a painful experience. Please do not go through it alone, and reach out to someone who can help you through the pain. Just be careful about who you choose. An unbiased, neutral person, such as a… [Read More]
Domestic Abuse Through the Eyes of a Friend: How to be Supportive
For our last DVAM guest post, Nicole Brown shares a story of how she became aware that her friend was in an abusive relationship. She had no idea because “He seemed so charming.” Many of them are. Domestic Violence is so hidden behind closed doors, and when the abuser shows exactly the opposite in public, it may… [Read More]
See No Evil, Hear No Evil, Speak No Evil
This next DVAM guest blogger has contributed such compelling insight from a child’s perspective. Shelia Cooper is a poet who was deeply affected by domestic violence as a child. I hope Shelia’s work will provide empathy in the hearts and minds of parents involved in a domestic violence situation. Insanity It came howling in the wee… [Read More]